My sexy dream

Today I had a very unusual dream, or should I say dreams, because I remember 2 different stories. I usually don't dream women, but today I dreamt about two! How lucky can I get, huh? :)

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I was in a room somewhere, it was evening. It could be a club or pub, but it was quite messy. It was made of wood. And there were many people sitting and chatting. I think it was somewhere in Asia, probably Korea. Then a girl entered the place and guess who was it? Honey Lee! One of my favourite beauties. She was miss South Korea 2007. In my dream, she had some people escorting her and she looked very shy. I think I was the only one who recognized her, but she wore a hat and she had some very casual clothes on. I approched her and said: Hello Honey, I am a big fan, can I snap a photo of you and me with my cell phone? I remember she didn't reply, just smiled and passed by and girl, who accompanied her, said she will speak with her and let me know. So I waited on the other side of the room and they talked. After few minutes, that girl came back and said: Honey agreed to snap a photo with you. So I went there, bowed and smiled and the girl took my cell phone, because she said she'll snap the photo. We both kneeled down and that girl snapped a picture of us. After that my memory is fuzzy... I think I was trying to flirt with her, or at least chat a little... And I think we did... hmm... unfortunately I don't remember more :( But it was really a good dream :)

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Ok, this dream was the last one I remember before I woke up. And when I realized it, it was really strange to me, because I dreamed about a cute blonde girl. I still have the image of her in my head all day. I try to find someone online that resembles her. She had blonde hair tied in a cute little pony tail. And she really liked me. I remember we were sitting in on a bench in a park and we talked and laughed... and finally we kissed. I remember holding her hand and I was really so happily in love. Unfortunately that's all I remember :( I know there was more happening... but I guess it will remain buried somewhere in the depth of my mind.

Conclusion

I wonder why I dreamed 2 girls in one night. But dreams are always a mystery. Have you ever dreamed being in love with someone? How about kissing? I have to say I was really trying so hard to fall asleep again, but it didn't work. Why are dreams over, if we open our eyes? I could still remember the story, the girl... ah, what to do. It was just a dream. Life goes on like before :-)

OMG, I never proposed to a woman!

I just realized, I'm almost 3o and never proposed. I had 3 shots (3 long term relationships), yet I blew it. I have to say, I was never a fan of weddings, because in my country almost half of the people don't marry, they just live together, have kids... that's normal here. Marry, not marry, no difference here. But when I started dating Asian women, weddings and marriage is like crucial in every person's life. First I was sceptical, but then I realized that most people in Asia marry and they stay together (unlike Europe), so there's nothing cynical about weddings. They are taken very seriously and they are big, expensive and sometimes there's even people attending who you don't really know well. Here it's usually only people you personally know well.

Regardless the facts, I just never proposed. I guess I was afraid. It just didn't feel right, but I still held on to the relationship. I'm weird. But the older I get, the more I wish to propose to someone and marry. If I didn't have the Asian-experience, I probably wouldn't ever think about marriage and proposing. So, I will propose to the first woman who comments here. I'm so desperate. Haha...

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A wise man

“A wise man makes his own decisions, an ignorant man follows public opinion”
(Chinese proverb)

I wonder why I didn't change my habits when I got the chance last week, when the internet was down. It's funny when you know that temperance is the key for a happy life, when you know that being in the middle is where you can sail smoothly. Yet, I always tend to go to the extreme. I am aware of my current problems, I know my behavior is a way of running away from them. I have to be a rock that stands firmly in times of turbulence and confusion and stop being a feather that's affected by every breeze. I learned that today.

I need to value myself higher and be more self-confident and not allow people to treat me in a way I do not deserve, because I did a lot for them. I always strive for equality in human relations, if it gets unbalanced, I tend to question the entire relation.

But this is not about other people and human relations, it's about me becoming a wiser man, building myself up, building a stronghold in my real world environment rather than building something shaky and unstable in the unreal world.

A cowardly soldier and alien Obama

As you may have heard, some people in America, who hate Obama, want to prove that he's not a natural-born citizen of USA and therefore he's not elegible to be the president of the United States. They have whole websites dedicated to trash him just because he's not white black and because of his 'Hussein' middle name. For white supremacists and racists a black American president named Hussein must be like the fall of Babylon. They think stuff like this is funny [Their god must be cracking up].

Obama was born in Hawaii, Hawaii is part of USA (ask Rowena). The law is clear: If you're born on US soil, you are a natural-born citizen of America, regardless of your parents citizenship [check this article]. I like this law, I consider flying to USA on vacation when my wife will be almost due to give birth :).

Well, those Obama-haters (or shall I say nutcases) then go on saying his birth certificate was altered, forged or whatever. Anyway, no court has taken these people really seriously and they have no proof because there is none. But they have a lot of time and they have a lot of hate. How about they spend it on the research of the US presidential election of 2000 and George Bush and his issues with the law? Oh, that's history and it wouldn't bother them anyway.

Then I read this article on HuffPost and one comment really cracked me up. It's about a soldier who refused to be deployed to Afghanistan because (he believes) Barack Obama was never eligible to be president because of that birth-certificate thingy. Funny, huh? Some people called him coward, but one guy was really funny. Here's his take on this:

Comment by Gover: I am also a soldier and it is my belief that Barack Obama is not a human being. I believe that he is an alien and I would be following illegal orders if I were to deploy to Afghanistan by order of an extraterrestrial imposter.
I will happily return to service if I can personally anally probe Barack Obama. Only deep, lengthy examination of the colon can satisfy my skepticism and therefore Obama must comply with my demands.

One guy replied and it cracked me up, too, haha...

@Gover by cimbri: You don't need to investigate since your head is already up his colon.

I can just laugh about this nonsense. It's always amusing when libs and neocons clash. So far, the libs were funnier, but I guess the neocons will catch up, because the current president is making them go nuts. And I couldn't be happier about this fact.

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About hypnotized killers and lovers

I was recently watching a show where they proved, that you can hypnotize a person to have full control over him and actually use him even for killing someone. There was a case was used for robbing a bank and killed two people along the way. But when they found out that he was hypnotized and therefore had no control over his actions, they started to look for the person behind all this. They found him, charged him with murder and sentenced him to prison. An interesting twist.

That made me think. I would never use someone to commit a crime, but I was thinking about something else: Would it be possible to hypnotize your dream woman to fall in love with you? I think it would be. But then again, how long would such a hypnosis stay? And something else would bother me: Wouldn't it be so fake when someone loved you, because you programmed him or her to do so? It would be a thrill for a short while, but some time later, at least for me, the magic would be gone. It just wouldn't be real, because the person would lose its original personality and it wouldn't be the dream girl or guy you used to phantasize about.

There's another thought I had: Isn't it same, when someone has a strong crush or an obsession? The admired person could also manipulate the obsessed one. Then again, I don't understand the joy of manipulating people. For me obsessive behavior is deemed extreme and unhealthy and it's a huge turn-off. I think it would be wiser to bring the obsessed person back to reality.

For me there's nothing more rewarding than real love that comes naturally. Every relationship has an initial period where you project all your desires and unreal expectations on your partner. But soon there comes a time, when you actually start getting to know the real person behind the image you created, you see all his or her flaws and downsides. In my experience that comes after a year. That's the time when your own hypnosis starts fading.

Damn, it happened to me 3 times, I need to learn from this. The next woman I fall in love with, I need to sober down in the initial phase and try to check the facts: Do we really have common interests, values and expectations? Not like what I usually do: Oh, you're not into politics? Oh, no problem. You don't like to talk about history, culture, world events? You have no opinion on any of these things? No problem. Well, it becomes a problem after a while when we have nothing to say to each other and the sex can't compensate for everything else that doesn't match. I want my girlfriend to be my best friend, my confidant and my lover. Is that too much to ask for? Some say they found their soulmate. Well, I don't know… I don't know wheather you're out there, but I won't push it to find you, I wish you'd find me. But maybe I'm hypnotized and don't want to face the reality. Maybe there's no perfect match out there for me.

[Photo: Screencap of Ayumi Hamasaki video]

Kidnapping and murder near my house!

It was a sad sad day today. Willy was kidnapped and murdered. The suspect is unknown, but according to my investigation, he is a tom-cat between 2-10 years, sneaky, fast and merciless. He must have surprised our cat Pacha, while she was not paying attention to her newborn: Willy. [See photos below]

My sister managed to snap few pics of Willy today. Let me tell Willy's life story. Willy was 2 days old. All of his life he spent in a box. He was a single child. Because we gave his mum, Pacha, hormonal pills that prevent pregnancy, she probably lost the ability to get 4 or 5 kittens like usually. That's why she only had one kid: Willy. We wanted a cat few months ago, so mum skipped the pills for her. Soon a lot of tom-cats from neighbouring houses started to come and made her pregnant within a week. 3 months later Willy was born. That was on this Monday. We were so happy, because we wanted a male cat and Willy was male. And he looked so cool. The fur was unique: Dark brown on top, then striped on the belly with the color changing to light grey. I imagined how I will raise Willy, play with him, spoil him and cuddle with him... I love cats. We have two females, so another male would be perfect. Willy seemed perfect. But...
...kidnapping and murder occured near my house! Tonight! It started with gusty winds, then lightning and heavy rain. Suddenly I heard a scream through that heavy rain noise. I asked my mum what it was. I checked outside, it was the cats. OMG! First I thought it's our two cats fighting, but that seemed very odd. I had to check. I took a torchlight and went out. It was scary, because it was lightning near by and just a week ago a lightning struck near my house and shut my internet down for 1 week. I was brave. I was bold. I was stupid. But I had to check.
The crime scene was following: Pacha in distress and confused, Misha came around the corner in a sneaky pose. I shone some light in the box where Willy used to lay: It was empty! OMG, Willy is gone! I told my mum and sister. We went to check around the box and around the house. Willy was gone. I went further to the main road: No sign of Willy! When I came back, we started to blame each other about whose fault was it that Willy was gone. Our argument was pointless. Willy was gone and so were our hopes and dreams we put in the little guy. I told my mum that there is no real safety for a young cat here. Our cats are outside at night, danger is present all the time. I really don't know how Pacha couldn't secure and protect Willy. That sneaky little bastard who took Willy, I hope he's happy now. Mum said that tom-cats sometimes kill the babies so that the female would mate again. Well, you made a bad move, buddy. I think mum will put pacha back on the pills and you won't be able to empty your bean can in her bowl. And if I spot you sneaking around our house tomorrow, you can bet I will chase you like there is no tomorrow. You killed Willy! You escaped today, but there's always a tomorrow. I'll getcha, you betcha!

R.I.P. Willy. We didn't have enough time to become close, but you grew on me, Willy. I dedicated a whole post to you. Who does that, Willy? Who does that for a cat who was only 2 days old? I do. I do because I am a good person. And you will always and forever be rememebered, Willy! [Unless Blogger goes into bankrupcy and it's taken down.]

Tiffany Wong, Hong Kong model

Let me introduce you one of Hong Kong's finest models

Photos by Jimmy Leung, source.

Tiffany Wong is one of the most beautiful friends I have. Well, look at the pics: Could I say it better? The only thing I need to explain is 'friend'. It's meant in a very broad sense of the meaning, because I'm not really close with Tiffany. I never met her in real and we only message each other on Facebook from time to time.

I stumbled accross Tiffany, a model from Hong Kong in her twenties, on Friendster few years ago and decided to write to her, because I was wondering if such a gorgeous girl would reply back to me, it was really just a test. But to my surprise she did reply and ever since we messaged with each other now and then. Although she's a model and strikingly gorgeous, she's very humble and grounded. As we both later started using Facebook, she added me as her friend and from that on I like to comment on her photos or message her. But she's not online as much as me. I guess that's because she's very busy with her photo shoots and events.

Anyway, what made me write about her was our recent messaging on FB, where she offered me to be my guide in case I come to Hong Kong some day. I was like wow, so kind of her. I'd take the offer immediately, if I had the luxury of flying to that amazing city and having her being my guide would certainly be a highlight of my trip. Unfortunately I don't see myself going to Hong Kong any time soon.

But let's go on topic again. What's so special about Tiffany Wong is her natural beauty. She's really blessed with a slim figure and long legs and a purely beautiful face. She's just a naturally gorgeous beauty. And now add her down-to-earth personality and you've got a dream woman you'll hardly find anywhere else. I know my judgement is not based on all facts, but that's just my impression of her. Sure, every person has a downside and is not always perfect like the photos want to convey. But as I said, everyone has flaws, it's part of who we are, so that shouldn't be highlighted as if it was something extraordinary. I'm not writing this as a kind of weird groupie, but just as a friend and admirerer of her work. I think her photos are really beautiful. Not only because of her, but also because there's so many good photographers in Hong Kong. And she really works with some of the best. If you browse thru her photo albums, you'll see, that she's doing a lot of bridal shoots. I think that's where she's at her best. She just looks adorable in a wedding dress and no wonder that she gets booked so much. She looks like the perfect bride.

Besides the bridal shots, she's doing all kind of photos, so you better check her photo albums yourself (below are the links). I'm sure you'll find some photos that will mistify you as they mistifyed me. If you're from Hong Kong and you look for a model, please contact Tiffany, I'm sure you wont be disappointed. I'd be very happy if someone booked her because of my review, hehe. I wish her good luck and hopefully more incredible photos to come. My favorite portrait photos of her are the following: Photo 1, Photo 2, Photo 3, Photo 4 and Photo 5.

PS: Tiffany read my post about her and felt very happy and flattered :-)

For more check Tiffany's website & photo albums>>

1 SOME OF TIFFANY'S PHOTOS:

Photos by Saymond, source.

Right photo by Jimmy Leung, source.

Photos by Twin Link Ltd, source.

2 SOME OF TIFFANY'S VIDEOS:

Reporting from an Anime Cosplay convention in Hong Kong, 2010

You'll find more videos of Tiffany here:

1 Tiffany 約您喺中環食 lunch
2 成百萬一張壽司 bar 枱
3 辣辣壽司邊個食
4 食極都唔願走
5 Tiffany 密密食 @ 香港餐室

All photos with courtesy of Tiffany Wong. The photographers are credited.